look into my eyes

assalamualaikum

ada meeting semalam dan tiba-tiba terfikir pasal topic ni. aku adalah seorang yang suka buat eye contact. sudah menjadi kebiasaan dari dulu lagi. bagi aku, eye contact bererti berani.! kalau kau mampu pandang ke mata aku, aku tahu bahawa kau seorang yang berani. =D

she is so cute. i'm gonna die..!!!! =D

1. Eye contact is a good communicator all the time

- aku selalu pandang mata lecturer yang sedang mengajar kat depan. aku akan pandang mata dia sampai dia pandang mata aku. eye contact ni sebenarnya ada daya tarikan. believe me.! dalam beberapa saat, your lecturer will notice you. bila lecturer pandang mata aku, aku senyum dan terus tunduk. lepas tu aku pandang balik. haha. i did this in every class/lecture.  =)

2. eye contact is powerful, so use it carefully. staring at someone is threatening. it makes people uncomfortable

- oh, ini best.! eye contact dengan staring or merenung seseorang itu berbeza. korang pernah buat tak.? kalau aku tak suka orang tu, aku pandang gak, tapi mata aku macam nak makan dia je. you can feel how much i mad at you from my eyes. my eyes are not good  in lying. plus i have a very transparent face expression. 

3. get eye contact with someone before you start talking to the person. that way, you know that person is paying attention to you.

- ni boleh praktikkan masa bagi presentation. make sure korang pandang juri/hakim/lecturer yang bagi markah. walaupun topic presentation korang tak best, tapi bila korang berjaya menarik perhatian diaorang menggunakan kuasa eye contact, at least diorang tak de lah ke laut. eye contact can express your confidence.! kan kan kan.? ni pon terbukti benar sebab aku selalu buat walaupun suara shaking gile. LOL.

4. your eyes show you feel more than your body language. the way you look into people's eyes tells people what you think about them and how comfortable you are with them.

- awhhh. this is so sweet. your eyes can tell people how you feel. if i can look into your eyes dengan selambanya, means that i'm very comfortable with you. if i don't look into your eyes, it means i look them using my 'mata hati'. 

this memory will be kept safely in my heart.

anonymous: kenapa pandang macam tu.?

me: saja. kenapa.? tak boleh ke.?

anonymous: hish, seganlah. (blushing)

me: jom kita main satu game. main pandang mata. sape alihkan pandangan, dia kalah.

anonymous: ok. fine.!

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anonymous: kenapa tak pandang.?

me: betul lah. terasa segan. hehe 

anonymous: ^___^

tapi berhati-hati, sebab dari mata jatuh ke hati. boleh je buat eye contact tapi dengan syarat kene tutup pintu hati. aku orang yang kurang berperasaan, so bolehlah buat. hoho.

p/s: try la buat experiment dengan eye contact.! just a random post from my random thought. =)